Tommy Lee and Brittany Furlan: A Timeline of Their Relationship (2024)

Tommy Lee and Brittany Furlan’s relationship started in a very modern way: The Mötley Crüe drummer followed the social media star on Instagram, they arranged to meet and quickly fell for each other.The couple, who have a nearly 24-year age difference, were first spotted together in June 2017 when they made out and got handsy outside of a sushi restaurant. Soon after, they began sharing photos together on their Instagram pages as their romance continued to heat up.“We met online, but we knew about each other for years,” Furlan told Fox News in January 2019. “He used to watch my Vine videos — he was one of my followers and obviously, I loved his music. I was a Methods of Mayhem fan and Mötley Crüe fan. I wasn’t a huge fan — I didn’t listen to a bunch of Mötley Crüe, but I definitely liked Methods of Mayhem and I always thought he was super attractive. We just hit each other up and ended up going on a couple dates and it was awesome — now here we are.”Lee and Furlan made their first public appearance as a couple in September 2017 at the Streamy Awards in Beverly Hills. The following February, they got engaged while celebrating Valentine’s Day.The pair walked down the aisle exactly one year after the rock star’s proposal, marking his fourth marriage. He was previously wed to Elaine Starchuk from 1984 to 1985, Heather Locklear from 1986 to 1993 and Pamela Anderson from 1995 to 1998. Lee and Anderson share sons Brandon Thomas and Dylan Jagger.

As Lee and Anderson coparent their sons, theBarb Wireactress has publicly supported his relationship with Furlan.

"He's married and happy, and she's good to him and I totally support that and think that's great," Anderson said during a January 2023 appearance on The Howard Stern Show. "I hate to be annoying and going through this again. I'm sure she's annoyed, but I respect their relationship, and [I'm] just glad he's happy and he has somebody in his life.”

Nearly one month later, Anderson’s bond with the social media influencer seemingly hit a snag with the release of herLove, Pamelamemoir andPamela, A Love Storydocumentary.

“I just wanted to come on here and let you know I’m OK because I know people have been checking on me, which is really nice and I’m good, don’t worry,” Furlan said in a TikTok video the following February after fans slammed her marriage. “And don’t worry about the people that are saying all the mean things they’re saying … I don’t live in that world.”

She continued: “I’m lucky to have a really loving husband who honestly laughs all this stuff off and could care less. I don’t sweat the comments from people that don’t know me or my relationship or anything like that.”

Scroll down to see a timeline of Lee and Furlan’s relationship:

The lovebirds couldn’t keep their hands to themselves after having dinner at Banzai Sushi in Calabasas, California.

Lee supported Furlan at the 2017 Streamy Awards, where they took the stage together at The Beverly Hilton to present an award.

The duo enjoyed a relaxing and romantic trip to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. At the end of their vacation, the musician shared a selfie with the former Vine star on the beach on Instagram, writing, “Bye bye CABO!!!! Love you and my baby!”

After Lee’s proposal, Furlan took to Twitter to show off her new heart-shaped diamond ring. “Best day of my life!!!!” she wrote. “I can’t wait to get to spend forever with my best friend #engaged.”

The couple made their red carpet debut at the Tribeca Film Festival premiere of The American Meme.

Lee and Furlan confused fans when they both uploaded a photo of themselves standing at a wedding altar in white bathrobes. However, they later clarified that it was not a surprise wedding.

The aspiring actress kissed her then-fiancé’s tongue during a PDA-filled night at a Strange 80s concert.

Lee and Furlan married on Valentine’s Day and announced the news with photos of their dogs dressed in bride and groom outfits. “It’s official!!!! We’re married!!! MR & MRS LEE YAHOOOOOOOO,” she wrote on Instagram, while he wrote, “Holy s--tballs!!!! We did it!!!! Mr & Mrs Lee.”

The pair coupled up at Netflix’s The Dirt premiere in Hollywood. The biographical drama, based on Mötley Crüe’s 2001 memoir, chronicled the band’s career and included a brief appearance by Furlan.

Lee made headlines when he shared a picture of Furlan in a tiny purple bikini on Instagram with the caption, “She gonna kill me for posting this but look at this 100% natural body.” She commented, “Omg my face.”

“Please wish my husband a happy 8th birthday. He’s a big boy now. Love you poopy. Til the wheels fall off x 🖤,” the Pennsylvania native gushed via Instagram to celebrate her husband’s 58th birthday.

The couple walked the MTV Video Music Awards red carpet hand-in-hand.

Furlan and Lee snapped a selfie at Philadelphia’s Citizens Bank Park before one of the drummer’s concerts.

Anderson’s memoir and documentary prompted many readers and viewers to criticize Furlan for marrying Lee after his tumultuous past relationship.

“I’m lucky to have a really loving husband who honestly laughs all this stuff off and could care less,” the “Worst Firsts” podcast host said via TikTok, noting she doesn’t “sweat the comments” from individuals who don’t know the full story.

According to fans, Lee brought Furlan on stage during Mötley Crüe’s El Paso concert, where she flashed the crowd. “Does that not get the party started?” Lee asked the audience. “Let's go!”

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